RGS Guildford courtyard with students

Sportsmanship

Sportsmanship can be interpreted in many ways, but for me, it’s what transforms a simple game into something truly meaningful.  It’s not just about winning or losing—it’s about respect, fairness, and being a decent person, even when the scoreline is against you.  Imagine you’re losing 5 – 0, and to make matters worse, your teammate just scored another own goal… again.  It’s moments like these when sportsmanship really shows its true value.

Take tennis legend Roger Federer, for example.  He’s famous not only for his incredible skill but also for his calm demeanour and respect for his opponents.  He has this amazing ability to look like he’s just come from a relaxing round of golf with his friends, even after a gruelling five-set match.  When Rafael Nadal beat him in the 2009 Australian Open final, Federer was emotional, but he still congratulated Nadal with grace and genuine admiration.

One important aspect of sportsmanship is playing fair.  It means following the rules and respecting the decisions made by the umpire or referee, even if it’s the Champions League final.  So, when you’re out on the hockey field and Mr Dunscombe’s whistle blows, it’s important not to argue but to accept the decision, whether you agree with it or not.

Sometimes sportsmanship means helping someone up instead of rushing to win.  Like when your teammate trips during a school game and you stop to help them instead of chasing the ball.  Or when you compliment an opponent who just made a great play, even if it was the match winner.  Sportsmanship teaches us that how we play matters more than whether we win.  It teaches patience – when we’re losing.  It teaches grace – when we’re winning.  It teaches teamwork, self-control, fairness, and loyalty.  These are lessons we carry far beyond the pitch.

For us, sport is often the first real test of character.  It’s where we learn how to deal with pressure, failure, and success.  And it’s where we’re challenged to become better not just as athletes, but as people.  A person who learns to respect his opponents in a match learns to respect his classmates, teachers, future coworkers, even if you don’t get along.

In conclusion, sportsmanship isn’t about being perfect – it’s about being human.  Whether you’re shaking hands after a win, helping someone up after a fall, or just sharing a laugh with your opponent, it’s what makes sport more than just a game.  It makes it a shared experience that builds character, one missed penalty at a time.  Thank you.

Matteo Varda
Senior Prefect